How to make friends at school on the first day: Back to school like a boss!

Can you feel the buzz in the air? The start of a new school year is almost here! Are you ready to jump into new adventures, learn new things, and meet new people? We know starting fresh can be a little nerve-wracking, but worry not, it’s going to be an exciting ride! And guess what? Making new friends is one of the most exhilarating parts of the journey. Whether you’re a social butterfly or a bit shy wallflower, with a few easy tips, you’ll be able to make new friends on the very first day of school. So, get ready to step out of your comfort zone and let’s take a look what you can do to easy the process of making friends!

Nail your first impression!

The first step in making new friends is introducing yourself. When you meet your classmates for the first time, it’s important to know who’s who. You may not remember their name instantly but that’s why the first impression is very important! The key to kicking things off on the right foot is to introduce yourself with friendly greeting. Oh, and we know how cliche it may sound but a smile really goes along the way! This can spark a conversation and show that you’re open to meeting new people.

Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and say something like, “Hey there, I’m Anna. What’s your name?” It’s simple, it’s sweet, and it shows that you’re down to make new friends. If you’re feeling extra chatty, you can even toss in a little more detail about yourself, like your favorite band or sport, or what you like to do in your free time. Who knows, maybe you’ll find someone with the same interests and hit it off right away! This can help break the ice and give your classmates something to talk to you about.

Friendly is the key!

If you want to make new friends, you gotta be FRIENDly. Get it? It’s as easy as flashing a big smile and radiating positivity wherever you go. Okay, we’ve already said that smile goes along the way but it truly does! Don’t ever underestimate the power of a smile. When you meet someone new, be sure to flash them a big, genuine grin. It’ll make you look warm and welcoming, and it’ll put your new friend at ease. Remember, a smile is the universal language of friendship!

Another way to show that you’re friendly and approachable is to offer to help out whenever you can. Maybe someone dropped their books in the hallway – you could help them pick them up. Or perhaps someone’s having trouble with a maths problem – you could offer to lend a hand. Being helpful is really the key to show that you are approachable. You can swoop in like a superhero and save the day! These small acts of kindness are a surefire way to make a great first impression and show that you’re a caring and thoughtful person. Plus, who knows? Maybe your new friends will return the favor someday and save your bacon!

However, we understand for some, just the thought of walking to up strangers and offering them a hand could twist your stomach. Perhaps the situation is the other way around. You could always welcome your new friends to help you! Asking for help is a great way to break the ice and show that you’re open to making new connections. Maybe you need help finding your way around school, or you’re struggling with a tough assignment. You could reach out to a classmate and ask for their assistance. This not only shows that you’re friendly, but it also gives your new friends a chance to shine and feel good about themselves.

Ask questions and exchange interests!

Asking questions is an awesome way to spark connections with your classmates. You might be surprised at how much people love to talk about themselves! Whether you’re asking about their hobbies, favourite sports, or what they did over the summer, showing an interest in their lives is a great way to break the ice and make them feel comfortable around you.

Prepare yourself to be asked questions too! It’s a two-way conversation after all. By opening up and sharing a bit about yourself, you’ll give your classmates a chance to get to know you better and find common ground. And who knows, you might discover that you have more in common than you thought! As you bond over these shared interests, you’ll start to form real connections that can last a lifetime.

Join in and participate!

Get ready to jump in and have some fun with your new classmates! Don’t be shy to join in on the action. If you see your classmates doing something that looks interesting or engaging, ask if you can join in. Being an active participant shows that you’re friendly and outgoing, and that you’re eager to get to know your classmates better.

Perhaps you see a group of classmates playing a game that you love. Don’t hesitate to approach them and ask if you can join in. Not only will you get to do something you enjoy, but you’ll also have the chance to bond with your classmates over a shared interest. Or maybe you overhear a conversation about a topic that you’re passionate about. Politely ask if you can join in and share your own thoughts and opinions. Who knows, you might just find some new friends who share your interests!

If you’re feeling brave, you can even suggest an activity or game that you enjoy. This is a great way to share your interests with your classmates and potentially introduce them to something new. For example, if you love playing basketball, you could suggest shooting some hoops during lunch or recess. This is a fun and active way to bond with your classmates and get some exercise at the same time.

Just Be Yourself!

Look, we know it can be tempting to try to fit in by acting like someone you’re not or pretending to like things you don’t. Developing a whole new personality and wearing it like a costume every new school year? It’s nothing new. But you must remember in the long run, this strategy is bound to fail. True friendships are built on honesty and authenticity, so don’t be afraid to show your true colours! 

By embracing your interests, quirks, and personality, you’ll attract friends who share your values and appreciate you for who you are. And remember, you don’t have to change yourself to make friends. You’re already amazing just the way you are, and that’s something to be proud of! After all, there’s nothing more unique than our true self! So just be yourself and watch as you attract new friends who love you for who you are.

Remember to keep in touch!

Once you’ve made new friends, make sure to keep in touch with them. Exchange phone numbers or social media handles, and make plans to hang out outside of school. Keeping in touch shows that you value their friendship and want to continue getting to know them better. You can also invite them to join you in activities that you enjoy, such as playing sports, going to the movies, or hanging out at the park. Spending time together outside of school can help strengthen your friendship and create lasting memories.

Extra tip: use Pandai!

Psst! Did you know that you can also make new friends on Pandai? Pandai is an online learning platform that provides several opportunities for students to interact and connect with each other. You don’t have to be in the same place to make new friends! How exciting? In Pandai, you can participate in group discussions or forums – like our discord server – where you can exchange ideas, learn from others, and also get to know your friends better. You can share your thoughts, ask questions, and even engage in friendly debates. It’s truly exciting! Bottom line is that Pandai Education can be a great place to meet new friends and explore those who share similar interests and goals. Just be yourself, be active, and reach out to other students. Who knows, you might just end up making lifelong friends!

At the end of the day, making new friends takes time and effort. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t make friends on the first day of school. Keep trying, be patient, and most importantly, have fun! Good luck!

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